


Yesterday my friends and me had really nice tapas at Café Tabac. When five girls get together you won’t have to wait long until the subject will be about boys. Yesterday’s topic was about boys and what super power that would be the very best. The winning power was logic – to be able to see things from a guy’s point of view (competing with the ability to fly, being invisible, having a rubber arm and the capacity of shooting fire).
My mind reminded me of a crazy book ”A woman’s handbook” which I got from my grandma. It describes the most absurd procedures expected from a woman to please the men (probably written before the 50’s). The funniest chapter has the headline ”Don’t show this to your husband!” which said, ”No man is looking for appreciation (it’s only women carrying such utopian thoughts). A man wants to be loved and worshiped, that’s all.” That quote is totally crazy (mainly because the complete book is about understanding a man’s wants and needs and to form yourself to that) but that’s what makes it so easy to think that life might not have to be harder than wanting to be loved. And you do not have to be a man to understand that!